Your Guide to Self Permission and Imperfect Action

Giving yourself permission to succeed takes courage beyond measure.

The truth is: the scrutiny, criticism and self doubt can paralyze you and that is just it.

WHO do you think you are?

Your chest gets tight at the mere thought that someone will say this AND you low key fear everyone is thinking this.

But the real question is: who would you become if you allowed yourself to succeed?

You want more, but are afraid to say: you won’t let yourself be great.

This is something that others get to do or get to be, but you are expected to color inside the lines.

We all are expected to do this. (To ‘want’ but never quite achieve aka dream and then complain about this or that, which is the reason(s), you can’t have the thing.)

Until you awaken to a discomfort that can no longer be ignored or denied, it will continue to nag at you and bury you while still alive.

Your Greatness is beckoning you.

But then you think, ‘What will they think about me?’ This screams and haunts you AND stops you from going to get the life you want.

Giving yourself permission to succeed takes courage beyond measure.

The truth is: the scrutiny, criticism and self doubt can paralyze you and that is just it.

WHO do you think you are?

Your chest gets tight at the mere thought that someone will say this AND you low key fear everyone is thinking this.

But the real question is: who would you become if you allowed yourself to succeed?

You want more, but are afraid to say: you won’t let yourself be great.

This is something that others get to do or get to be, but you are expected to color inside the lines.

We all are expected to do this. (To ‘want’ but never quite achieve aka dream and then complain about this or that, which is the reason(s), you can’t have the thing.)

Until you awaken to a discomfort that can no longer be ignored or denied, it will continue to nag at you and bury you while still alive.

Your Greatness is beckoning you.

But then you think, ‘What will they think about me?’ This screams and haunts you AND stops you from going to get the life you want.

Giving yourself permission to succeed takes courage beyond measure.

The truth is: the scrutiny, criticism and self doubt can paralyze you and that is just it.

WHO do you think you are?

Your chest gets tight at the mere thought that someone will say this AND you low key fear everyone is thinking this.

But the real question is: who would you become if you allowed yourself to succeed?

You want more, but are afraid to say: you won’t let yourself be great.

This is something that others get to do or get to be, but you are expected to color inside the lines.

We all are expected to do this. (To ‘want’ but never quite achieve aka dream and then complain about this or that, which is the reason(s), you can’t have the thing.)

Until you awaken to a discomfort that can no longer be ignored or denied, it will continue to nag at you and bury you while still alive.

Your Greatness is beckoning you.

But then you think, ‘What will they think about me?’ This screams and haunts you AND stops you from going to get the life you want.

Being a leader in your life means being self motivated.

It doesn’t mean, you don’t get knocked upside the head every now and again.

It does mean that you won’t allow fear to paralyze you into non-action.

Developing a growth mindset can significantly impact your ability to succeed.

The status quo views challenges as an obstacle, but a leader views them as opportunities for learning.

This perspective shift allows you to understand that every setback can lead to valuable insights and ultimately propel you closer to your goals or create new goals.

You teeter totter between hiding in plain sight and being seen. You are exhausted even though to the outside world you aren’t moving. This just will not do anymore!

Can you allow yourself to be seen?

Can you live outloud?

Make mistakes AND have success? aka: ‘fail fast’

Stop waiting for the other shoe to drop and have the cake and ENJOY every morsel.

It would be so easy if the world just handed you everything you wanted on a silver platter.

But where is the fun, the experience of it?

In theory, this would be awesome, but in fact, after a while, this gets pretty boring.

Don’t believe me? Recall a young child who gets frustrated when you tie her shoe when she is ready to do this herself. The fun is in the seeing a thing through.

With this said, it doesn’t have to be hard once you line up with desiring your greatness and seeing the greatness potential inside yourself.

You have to let yourself have it (internally) and here is the ‘work’.

Making an opportunity for yourself in allowing yourself to know that you are great.

It isn’t a celebrated quality, but when you are striving for something more, you can’t afford to care.

Every person that ever strived for greatness were deemed ‘crazy’ by someone(s) until they became a success.

Go after the thing that keeps you up at night. You may not have the whole vision in front of you, but just follow the breadcrumbs of your vision.

Sometimes, the Universe has to move obstacles and create opportunities to line up with your vision.

This is where the hard part comes in. If you are efforting too much, consider backing off as the timing might be off by a bit.

This simple easing off the brakes allows it to come in more perfect that you could have done working hard.

But whatever you do, don’t wait for approval from the powers that be (whoever that it is) or the people who are closest to you, you may be waiting til Neverurary.

Take imperfect action towards your dreams.

Continued manageable steps no matter the ’size’ are key here.

Every action you take reinforces your commitment to yourself and your goals.

Over time, the steps you accumulate turn into significant progress (especially provided that you celebrate the milestones) proving to yourself that you are indeed capable of achieving greatness.